I bet you missed my post on "What the h*ll are they thinking?"
It's short. I'm patient. Come back when you're done.
Now read this series by Dr. Sanity. (Kudos Roger and a tip from the comments as well)
Narcisism is pretty scary huh? When you're not balanced then you're, well, unbalanced! Why didn't YOU think of that?
And you never thought evil might seem almost understandable did you?
Yikes! A completely new imperative for the virtue of moderation.